How to overcome plus size trauma

Being slim or trimmed is not same as being beautiful. They are two very different things.
Being obese and being fat are not the same too. A lot of ladies today think it's all about size,so many even think once you are not slim,fashion is not for you. All these are just ideas that are straight out of nowhere but imaginations. Being a plus size teenager or youth doesn't mean you are cursed. You have to love yourself and appreciate God's work in you. Yes,continue your workouts but don't kill yourself or devout all your time to it. Being slim cannot put food on your table and definitely will not make your bank account fat.
There are other things to do than spend 15hours in a gym. You could spend more time doing things that make you happy.
You could go for a walk.
Call the girls for gists.
Read a novel.
Think of ways to keep your mind on your set goals.
Being a plus size doesn't kill. Obesity does.
Most clothes that have small and medium sizes have Xl too.
If that clothe you saw at the boutique doesn't have your size then forget it look for another.
Dress smart and classy. DON'T wear tight clothes,you don't want people giving you that what-is-she-wearing at the mall which makes you think twice.
Discover life..live it..be happy.
No matter your size,that guy that will love everything about you will come your way. It's all about time.
You've tried everything possible to be slim and nothing seems to be working but have you tried being happy just the way you are?.
You might not even look as pretty as you currently are if you slim down.
The chubby pretty face,the lush pretty lips will all be bony.
You were created for a reason and its not to lose weight.
Three things to help you overcome plus size trauma.
DISTRACTIONS : ALways try as much as possible to distract yourself from all the things going on in your mind. Do something you like,anything at all. You could sit outside the house and chat with kids.
You could visit a friend. You could pick up your phone and surf the net. Go shopping. Go clubbing. Dance. Do anything at all.
SELF-LOVE: It's about you and no one else. Rule your world. Love yourself no matter what,no matter how you are. Everyone will not be slim. Be among the plus size queens. Appreciate what you have and watch other people appreciate you. Flaunt what you have. Don't hide yourself. Change your wardrobe if you must. Spend more time taking care of yourself than thinking about your size. Spend more time taking care of yourself than at the gym.
SELF-ESTEEM: Most plus size youths always have low self esteem because they feel they are not pretty enough or shapy enough. This affects your thinking and so affects everything about you. You dont even feel comfortable around people. You have to fight this feeling. Those thoughts about not being pretty. You can't stand slim girls and all that. Who says you can't break someones' neck if she tries to mock your size?. Stand tall and stand strong. Don't let words bring you down.


Even as a plus size. You can be a model. You can achieve what ever you want to achieve. Size shouldn't stop you. Because you are beautiful the way you are. And notjing can stop you from reaching great heights. Just learn to be happy with yourself.